35岁的哥哥有手有脚，6年好吃懒做，啃60多岁父母的老该怎么办

The post discusses a 35-year-old brother who has been relying on his elderly parents for six years due to laziness and financial dependence. The family is seeking advice on how to address the situation, including changing the brother"s mindset, balancing support for parents, and potentially involving a counselor for guidance.