The main topic revolves around the idea that a woman"s greatest pride is not in love but in making the right choice of partner. It emphasizes the importance of selecting a suitable person for happiness and highlights the fallacy of placing too much emphasis on external factors like wealth and status. The story showcases how a woman named Xiao Qiao"s transformation from a骄傲的个性 to a more grounded and content one after choosing the right man illustrates this lesson.