厌学孩子是厌恶自己也厌恶世界，改变厌学从改变对孩子的态度开始(下)

The summary highlights the importance of changing parents" attitudes towards their children"s learning, promoting self-motivation, reducing control and pressure, addressing perfectionism, and emphasizing the need for a healthy parental-child relationship in overcoming student disaffection. It suggests that learning should be a personal choice and not solely driven by external expectations.